First of all, they’re a kind big account, and have already got a fair amount of replies, so probably don’t want to reply to anyone (in fact, I imagine they didn’t reply to ~anyone)
Second, idk… I’m like, telling him a fact, I’m telling him why he’s wrong… he’s clearly not in like, truthseeking mode here… I’m just not doing the thing * that I should be doing, I think I’m missing the correct move atm
There’s something here like… idk, they don’t have an incentive to reply to me, right? Like why bother? They just wanted to vent/share their frustration
I think here, I’m doing the wrong thing again. I think I should be trying to agree with him, to be agreeable, to get him to confirm that my model of him is correct
Vs what I’m doing is kind of a “umm actually!!” thing, which is annoying